Graced by God: Jen Becker’s Journey from False Identity to Kingdom Calling
“I want to see the world and people transformed.” That’s how Jen Becker began our conversation. Jen’s life is living proof that God redeems our story not by erasing it, but by revealing the original design underneath.
Chaos, Compassion, and Calling
Growing up in a home marked by both love and addiction-fueled chaos, Jen learned early to bring peace into turbulent spaces. “As a kid, I realized I could affect a space by bringing peace,” she shared. That impulse led her from hairstyling to ministry to her current work as an identity coach at Identity Exchange.
But her desire to heal chaos came at a cost. “Chaos used to feel magnetic,” she said. “Because I had this false identity of being responsible—like, no one’s going to fix it unless I do.”
From Fixer to Vestible
In a journey marked by recovery, revelation, and radical honesty, Jen’s transformation began with recognizing false identities. One of her earliest true identities? Graced by God. “Graced doesn’t mean made easy,” she said. “It means visited. And I realized—He’s always been with me. I’ve never been alone.”
She also shared the word Vestibule—a safe place between places. “I used to think I had to protect everyone. But God told me: you’re not the protector. You’re just a space where people can be safe while they find their next step.”
Becoming a Princess of Peace
Though she resisted the title at first, Princess of Peace became an incredibly meaningful phrase spoken over her life. “I don’t wear dresses,” she joked. But she came to see it as a call to carry divine authority into every room. “It’s not about how I look—it’s about whose daughter I am.”
The Medicine Woman of the Kingdom
In a vivid metaphor, Jen described herself as the “medicine person” from a childhood gym game—sneaking around and unfreezing those stuck on the sidelines. “I whisper, ‘Hey, you’re not stuck. Get up and run.’”
Like Dora the Explorer, she reaches into her backpack to hand them one tool at a time to help them take the next step.
That’s what she’s doing now through Identity Exchange: helping people exchange lies for truth, false identities for true ones.
“When we stand firm in our true identity, the Kingdom moves through us.”
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